If oral sex feels do good, why do many people refuse to give it?

While almost everybody would agree that receiving oral sex is great, not everybody is crazy about performing it.

First of all, oral is mostly a selfless act; meaning there isn’t much in it for the person performing oral sex apart from the satisfaction of witnessing how much the partner is enjoying it. 

This is probably the main reason why people who love receiving oral sex often don’t return the favor. 

Another thing that prevents many people from performing oral sex is the fact that they don’t feel comfortable kissing and licking their partner’s genitals.

Last but not least. A fair amount of people shy away from oral sex simply because they are afraid to admit they don’t know how to do it.