HOW DO I GET PEOPLE'S SIGNAL WHEN FLIRTING?

Interpreting signals correctly is not just about paying attention to the other person. You also have to know what to look for. 

Some people tend to be too optimistic and they mistakenly interpret innocent behaviors as signals of sexual interest. 

Others are too pessimistic or suffer from low self-esteem and they ignore or discount clear signs of interest that another person sending

The first step to interpreting other people’s signals correctly is to watch for behaviors that are out of the ordinary.

• For example, take notice if somebody looks at you multiple times, starts paying you a lot of compliments, always laughs at your jokes, or suddenly seems to be making an effort to spend time with you. 

Once one of these unusual behaviors activates your radar, if you are interested in the person, start flirting yourself and see how he or she reacts.

If you read the signals wrong, you’ll notice some indication of uneasiness. If the other person starts playing along, it’s probably time for one of you to make a stronger mover.