Will I have an orgasm the first time I have sex?

Men usually have an orgasm the first time they have sex. In fact, for the majority of guys, the problem isn’t whether or not they will have an orgasm but how quickly they will have it.

One of the most common problems that men experience the first few times they have sex is reaching orgasm way more quickly than they’d like. 

Intense sexual desire, combined with awareness that he is about to have sex, can cause such a high level of arousal that a man is on the edge of orgasm even without any direct stimulation of the penis. 

Once he has reached that point, even minimal direct stimulation of the penis—for instance, while his penis rubs against his underwear as he undresses or while he enters the vagina—can be enough to trigger an orgasm.

Women more often experience the opposite problem. In fact, it is common for women not to reach orgasm the first time they have sex or even the first few times. 

That doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it; it just means that it’s not as easy for a woman to reach orgasm.

Women generally need more time than men to become fully aroused, and many are unable to achieve orgasm without direct stimulation of the clitoris.

 Penetrative sex often doesn’t stimulate the clitoris directly. 

In addition, the first few times a woman has sex, she is likely dealing with nervousness due to lack of experience, a little bit of pain from the tearing of her hymen, and the possibility that her equally inexperienced partner will reach orgasm in no time. 

All of these things make orgasm an uphill battle for a woman.